Hey lovie what’s popping, welcome right back to the blog! I know everyone is currently talking about the month of love and date night ideas but I’d really like to talk about something that I feel is a huge factor amongst us as well as something that touches ones heart at a point in time. Today I want us to talk about getting what you want.
Hey guys what’s good? Welcome to the first and ultimate Question and Answer!! I have always wanted to host a Q&A but have always been scared to go through with it because I didn’t have much influence. But you know what, We have been doing this for two years and I feel like we are ready to take this on!
Answer : High school was honestly a very fun experience but at the same time something I could say I learnt a lot from. I think most of the things I deal with generally in life and how I deal with them is based from the experiences from high school. One thing I could say I learnt from high school is to be calm and to analyse something from all angles before acting on it. You will never gain anything from making a noise about something you don’t understand.
Answer : Yes I have and to say it was tragic is an understatement. Life broke us apart and God decided to take him to heaven before we could even fully learn of each other.
Answer : Natural how? If you mean makeup wise then the highs would be, your confidence rises on a high and you feel put together. Literally no one can put you down when you know your makeup looks good however the low is that when you don’t have makeup on you feel insecure kinda. You get used to seeing yourself with no blemishes or dark spots that when you see them you feel naked almost.
Answer : I honestly don’t know! I haven’t been consistent with a particular makeup brand that I really can’t choose.I’m more of the girl who’s tried one of each brand through one product you feel?
Answer : Ambition. I like a person who wants more, who won’t accept less but at the same time a person who acts towards his ambitions. If you have ambition and you show qualities of a hard worker then honestly you’ve copped me because I like linking with a person whereby we can push each other to do more.
Answer : Both
Question : What is sex?
Here’s what Google says..
Answer : In five years time I see myself in another country doing content creating permanently and professionally on all platforms. I actually see myself focusing more on the television and music industry and doing more and much bigger creative work.
Answer : Firstly, I love the way and how I deal with tough situations. I’ve noticed how I never fail to bring myself up from tragic situations and I actually respect myself for that. Another thing I love about myself is how big heated I am and how I always look to help others even though I don’t benefit and lastly what I love about myself is how I always find something to make the day. Whether it’s by joking around or doing skits my days are always fun filled and full of laughter that I sometimes can’t deal.
Answer : Lipstick! Girl I don’t know but I always have to have some type of lip product on my lips. I feel like a lipstick will always put a natural or a beat face on a higher level. So I always have a couple of colours in my bag.
Answer : Firstly I actually wanted to do YouTube(I still do) as a way to reach out to people about the things I loved but YouTube needed more resources that I didn’t have and I felt as though blogging was easier to do plus I had everything for blogging so I started blogging instead.
Answer : Lol this actually makes me laugh. Honesty girl I don’t think there’s a way to get him back without you actually telling him you like him especially since you’re the one who left him. So talk to him and tell him how you feel. But sþince you say he blocked you maybe it’s sign to just move on from him.
Answer : Yes
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Hey guys what’s popping? Back at it again with another blog post!! Okay as I finished posting the other blog I saw a comment from Smile Your Day Ahead and she had nominated me for the A-Z Tag and I was like “why not?” I honestly live for tags, they are absolutely fun to do. Anyway basically the A-Z Tag is just you describing yourself using the letters of the Alphabet.Here I go.
Yup guys that’s basically it. Can I point out how hard that actually was? Let’s just say I suck at vocabulary. I want to say thanks to Khartika for nominating me this was so much fun! Check out Khartika’s post here.
A few days ago I was introduced to an online matress company, Leesa and they had asked me to give you tips and tricks to getting a good night’s rest. For a very long time I had problems going to sleep that it went to even insomnia and whenever I did get a wink of sleep I never felt fully rested so I thought that this would be such a great topic to talk about.
Here are my tips to getting a good night’s rest.
1. Create an environment that is quiet and most comfortable to you.
I believe being comfortable is the easiest way to make sure you get a good night rest. So position your pillows to your own liking and spread your legs over the whole bed as along as your comfortable.When you are comfortable then you bed will be like laying on a cloud.
2. Go to bed early.
How are you supposed to feel rested and awake if you go to bed late? Take two hours off of your TV or cellphone time and put that into sleeping. Give yourself more than eight hours of sleep and you’ll definitely feel more rested.
3. Go with your routine.
If you’re used to sleeping at 9:00 pm then sleep at 9:00 pm. Don’t procrastinate and do unnecessary things instead of sleeping. Doing this will put you off of your routine and make your body feel tired and that is why we always complain when we wake up, saying we are tired.
4. Have a snack.
If you know you are about to sleep grab those nuts or crackers and take them to bed. I’m not saying have a whole meal but have a little snack to keep you going before your sleep. The best thing to do is to make it healthy. For example drinking warm milk or snacking on veggies.
5. Read a book.
Before going to sleep have that one book that you read. I start feeling sleepy when reading books while I’m in bed so that’s a great way to get my mind to start preparing to sleep and to kick start my sleepiness.
Leesa has also given me a graphic to share with you guys on becoming a morning person. Feel free to download it and use it.
Thank you guys for reading! Hopefully you will get a good night’s rest with the tips I have given. Thank you to Leesa for giving me this post idea because honestly I think a lot of us suffer from a lot of rest problems and hopefully from this we can all sleep better.
From the end of last year I had been looking for a Job. Reason being that I wanted to study this year and my mom didn’t have the money to take me to University or to any other further education Institute. Beginning of this year I found a job at shop called Clarks and decided that I would study Marketing Long Distance.
I have been doing that ever since and I must admit, it has been hard. I work from Monday to Sunday and get 5 days off every month. I am very grateful for the job that I have because it gives me a source of income and I still get to study however I have literally no time. Hence why I’ve been blogging less and posting less on social media.
While doing this I have met many beautiful people who make this less harder than it is. I have laughed continuously and learnt many different things. I have learnt that each day is an opportunity to learn and I feel like I have learnt to grow up emotionally and to deal with things in better ways. I have learnt to be independent and to stand on my own and not feel like there is something wrong with that.
Even though I will be posting less and doing less of the things I love, I want you guys to know that I love you so much and that I am gonna be trying my best to deliver content continuously. I don’t want you guys to feel like I am losing interest in this whole thing because you guys mean so much to me but I want you guys to understand the situation that I am in.
Once again thank you so much for the support that you guys have given me from the start till now. I honestly appreciate it.
Leave a comment telling me the hardest situation you have had to go through in your life, if you want to be private then you can email me.
Hey guys how are you?? It has been so long and i’ve been missing you guys a lot. However I am back and ready to tackle the blogging life. It is a new year and I believe we all change from time to time so I wanted to do the get to know me tag so that we know each other a little more. So here it goes..
- Are you named after anyone?
No. However my mom did like the name Jenny which she had heard from her neighbours and decided that because she didn’t want to sound like she was copying them then she’d name me Journey.
- When was the last time you cried?
I don’t really cry a lot. Whenever I do feel like crying I stop the tears from rolling down. The last time I did that was actually yesterday because I was afraid. I have servere anxiety so when I’m scared its a big deal.
- Do you have kids?
No. However I do have a baby girl that my aunt left for me to take care of when she died.
- If you were another person, would you be a friend of yourself?
Yes. I’m pretty cool.
- Do you use sarcasm a lot?
No not really. I just say the most weirdest things that people wouldn’t say out loud.
- What’s the first thing you notice about people?
Uhm, their face? I’m kidding.
- What is your eye color?
A normal brown.
- Scary movie or happy endings?
Both. If you have ever watched a movie with me then you know that I speak a lot. I do love happy endings but with scary movies then I get to comment the whole movie off so yeah.
- Favorite smells?
Uhm fresh smells? I really don’t know to explain it but there’s that smell that smells like water, ice cool. Almost like a cool breeze. However I also do like lemon and mint.
- What’s the furthest you’ve ever been from home?
I’ve been a province away and that’s not that far. I’m mostly home.
- Do you have any special talents?
No, Nothing out the ordinary like gymnastics. However I do sing and draw.
- Where were you born?
In Witbank, SA.
- What are your hobbies?
Singing, acting, drawing, writing and exercising.
- Do you have any pets?
I’m not really a pet type of person so no.
- Do you have any siblings?
Yuup, I have a brother named Kutlwano.
- What do you want to be when you grow up?
A singer or an actress.
- Who was your first best friend?
A girl named Tsebo. We are still best friends, we just don’t talk that much because we live far from each other.
- How tall are you?
About 150cm-180cm. I’m not really sure. My height depressed me since I figured I couldn’t be model ha-ha.
- Funniest moment throughout School?
I really can’t remember. I spent most of my time in school laughing at everything so I can’t decide what was the most funniest.
- How many countries have you visited?
I haven’t left South Africa.
- What was your favorite/worst subject in High School?
Physics. The only reason I hated physics was because I never understood it and it gave me a lot of stress when I knew I had a test the next day.
- What is your Favorite drink? Animal? Perfume?
Uhm, Strawberry milkshakes that are made with real strawberries. I really don’t like animals hey. My favourite perfume for now would have to be SI – by Armani
- What would you (or have you) name your children?
I keep forgetting the names I like lol but I do like the name Alexandria
- What Sports do you play/Have you played?
I’ve pretty much played netball my whole life.
- Who are some of your favorite YouTubers?
KellieSweet, Teala Dunn, Jeremiah Collins, Wolfie and Buggatti Beez.
- How many Girlfriends/Boyfriends have you had?
- Favorite memory from childhood?
I always love remembering how me and my cousins used to play on top of trees. We’d climb mango trees and everyone had their own houses(branches) and we’d just do crazy ish there.
- How would you describe your fashion sense?
As confused at the moment. But here’s a picture of what I’ve been liking at the moment.
- What phone do you have? (iOS v Android?)
I’m currently using an Android phone because I was robbed a few weeks ago.
- Tell us one of your bad habits!
I talk to myself a lot. And you’d just see my facial expressions changing and the constant raising of eyebrows.
Thank you so much for reading! I hope you enjoyed this post and hopefully got to know me a little more. Leave a comment telling me what your bad habit is!
Hey guys what is up?! First of all HAPPY NEW YEAR!! I wish you all the best for 2017 and let this year be the year for success. My life has literally changed around in like a day. I’ve passed my matric year with a high pass, I’ve found a job and I’m currently trying to act like an adult.
I’ve recently been introduced to a company called Earnest which is a group of people of many expertise who’s goal is make credit more accessible by reducing the costs and barriers faced by millions of financially responsible people.They asked me to share with you a money saving guide along with to highlight the importance of understanding your financials! We did just start a new year so I thought this would be amazing for setting goals and trying out new things.
I feel like 2017 is going to be LIT (yes, I used that word) and in order for us to get everything out of it we need to keep our financials in check.
Money makes the world go round so it is very important that you know where your money goes and what you do with it. Understanding your money means saving more and using your money wisely. Because if you know your financials then you know what to avoid, what not to do and how to use your money to the best of you.
Also, if you know your financials then it’s easier for you to set goals and see where your money goes. And instead of trying to buy the whole world, you know what you can afford, why its best not to spend on something and what the bigger goal is.
When Earnest approached me they asked me to set 4 goals for 4 quarters of the year and here’s what I came up with…
1. To have money saved up for the end of year(Christmas)
2. To have money to pay for my part time studies.
3. To have an aside budget each month that I can splurge on other things like makeup and fashion.
4. To have an aside budget for emergencies.
Earnest then went out to make me some cards to help guide all the goals. And here they are.
Basically all these cards have my goals and things that I could cut down on to save better for the goals and to make sure I achieve those goals. They are also very nice because they do send them individually and you could print them and for each quarter put them up somewhere where you could see them everyday.
Reason for me showing you guys this is because I want this year to be a year where we can all look back and say “Yah this was the year!” and not only to say this but to also have the proof in our bank accounts to show for it.
Anyway thank you so much for reading and please do go and check out Earnest’s website because they’ve got a whole lot of information on many aspects of that can affect your finances, like personal and student loans, and tips. If you check them out, I think it will help you so much for any financial goals that you have plus you can even refinance your sudent loans there to save thousands off your debt.
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Hey guys what is up?! Welcome to collabmas day 11!! We are so close, like can you feel the Christmas spirit? So last time I did a Christmas wishlist with Tea Lily but it was kind of a more fashionable Christmas wishlist. Today’s collaboration is with Fearlessnosi and together we are doing another wishlist but a more variable one with everything in it.Please do go and check out Fearlessnosi she’ll also have her wishlist up.
Music is one of the things that keep me going at all times whether I’m sad or happy. I have been wishing for a speaker for a long time now and never been able to get it. I would like one that is actually portable but with a good quality so that I can take it everywhere that I go. However I should warn you, I love hearing the beat of a song so I might just blow the roof off.
2. Customized phone case.
I’ve been loving these customized cases for a while now. I just love how you can incorporate your style and inspiration into your case, something that you see everyday and that you use everyday.
3. A makeup brush set.
I am only starting off with makeup so I don’t really know much than what I have picked up from Youtube. So at the moment I don’t own any makeup brushes so I don’t mind getting any makeup brushes but I’d really love to get the whole shabang with all the different brushes.
I am into making videos and taking pictures so I’dd love to get an actual camera to do those things. I recently started uploading on my YouTube channel and honestly it would be much better if i had a camera to actually take the videos with and be on A level with all the other youtubers. I recently just found out about the telefunken digital video camera tvc 240 which has 24 MP and I think is a pretty good camera to start ff with plus its only R1599 which I think is reasonable for a good quality camera.
5. LA girl setting spray.
At the moment I own the Estee Lauder Double Wear foundation and if you know it then you know that it’s got such a matte finish. Okay so i’m not a fan of that. Actually I’d much rather prefer if I had a dewy fresh kind of face. So the main reason I’ve got this makeup setting spray on my wishlist is because I’m hoping to get a fresh face rather than a dry one (matte).
6. LA Girl concealer.
I’ve also added this product to the list because I’ve heard so many good reviews about it and I’d actually love to try it. I’ve Also heard that it is actually one of the of the best concealers even though it is drugstore and sold at cheap price. So that would be amazing if I actually got one to try. I don’t think I need to conceal anything but I’d still love to have one.
7. Bronzer/ highlighter that goes with my skin tone.
Okay so I’ve always had problems with bronzers/highlighters. In my opinion it is really much harder to to get the right shade if you’re very dark so I’ve been really weary about it. However I’d still love one because I love the way these girls are glowing.
Bath Gift Set
Okay so since I was young I’ve always loved the bath gift sets that they always had at Dischem and still today no one has felt the need to gift me one so it is still something I wish to get. I just love the way they are setted out and the scents, guys I literally die! So I’d definitely love to get one of these.
Yuup guys so that is my wishlist part 2. Make sure to go and read the first one because I still love the things listed there. Also do go and check out Fearlessnosi’ wishlist I’ve got a feeling that its going to be bomb and add her on instagram here.
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Hey guys what is up?! Welcome to another day closer to Christmas. Today’s collaboration is with Luke India Ramos and we are both doing Fashion inspired posts. I am gonna be showing you guys my fashion inspired mood board and all the fashion things that inspire me. Please do go check out Luke’s post that will be up tomorrow after reading this and show him some love.
Okay so I think the sole purpose of a moodboard is to have something without actually spending the money. I mean it’s like window shopping or a wishlist, you’ve got everything laid out in front of you without even having to even have it in your cupboard.
On my mood board I’ve got a variety of things that keep me going and that I feel with them, they just take an outfit to a whole new level. I feel like you could go from a 0 to a hundred with some of these pieces.
WHAT’S ON MY MOOD BOARD.
- Bra let’s
- See through tops.
- Coats and bomber jackets
- Thug high boots
- Bucket bags.
- Lace ups.
- All kinds of jeans
- Fury coats
- Platform heels
- high waisted skirts
- Back pack
- Silk pieces
- Cover ups
There’s really no reason for having 2 mood boards but the fact that I couldn’t fit everything into one board. So I actually decided to do two of them showcasing everything I love and making these is actually so much fun. I really enjoy all this.
Yup guys so this my mood board and basically all that is here is everything that I feel the need to buy or that I think looks absolutely amazing. If you’ve got your own mood board posted as a blog post please do leave a link below I’d really love to check it out.
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Hey guys what is up? Welcome right back so today I’m doing my second collaboration with Kayla whom I totally love. For this collaboration we are doing a Christmas shopping haul. I’m very excited for this one actually because I don’t get to suck at it like my cookies did. Do go and check out our last one here. So I haven’t been shopping much actually because I’ve been working so I haven’t had much time but here’s what I bought.
So I bought this bodysuit mainly because I don’t have clothes this colour but as soon as I tried it on I fell in love with it. It’s got this curtain kind of thing in the front which I really love because you don’t see a lot of clothing with it. I did buy this on black Friday so I bought it for R83.99
Okay so I’ve been searching around for this top for long. My mom loves these tops but whenever we tried buying a top like this we just ended up putting it back, whether it was too faded, the colour wasn’t nice or it was too big. So I’ve gotten the chance to get one like this. When I saw this one I literally just grabbed it because the colour is firstly awesome and it looked good on my skin tone so yeah. I did buy this shirt for R69.99
Okay so I’ve been so obsessed with long cover ups and jackets this year so when I saw this one at Mr Price, I literally died. I was like no, let’s leave everything else, all I want is this. I also love the fact that its not a colourful shirt meaning it goes with my colour scheme and that I could actually style it in many different ways. This shirt was only R169.99.
The last casual thing that I bought was this green striped dress that had this raised collar (I forgot the name lol). I bought this at Legit for R84.01 and my mom is actually the one who said I must try it on. At first I was like mhmm no but as soon as I put it on guys I was like yow! You’re coming with me. Firstly the colour and the fact that it is a bodycon was an A+
Now I recently started working at some company, so as a teenager I didn’t have any work clothes so I ended up using all my money on that. So I’m gonna incorporate all of that into this haul because otherwise this haul would have been short.
I only bought one blouse mainly because the prices were insane so I ended up buying this checkered blue blouse that gave a lot of air and space. I really love this blouse because the material is kind of that formal classy kind and it is blue meaning I can style it in many different ways.
I bought these heels for R329.99 at Edgars and at first I wasn’t sure about them because they’ve got such a small heel and I’m about that big life however when I put them I actually saw how stunning they looked, especially since I have thin feet. So I actually love them.
So the first pair of pants that I bought were from Topshop Edgars and I bought them for R249.95 which was a complete bargain because the original price was R469 so I was very happy about that. Theses pants are in a standard navy blue colour and I like that because they are standard you can wear a different top everyday and people would still think that you’re wearing something different.
Then I also bought these standard black pants also which have the same cut as the above pants just that these ones are a black colour. I also bought them for the same reason as the above. These pants however were R399
The last pair of pants I bought was a funky colour, just to balance out the boring days. The colour of these pants actually pulled me in because I’m currently obsessed with such colours. Theses pants however are tight as if you’re wearing leggings of some sort so that was kind of an off. But I still love them wholey. I also bought them at a bargain because the original price was R799 and I got them for R425.
Yuup guys so that is my Christmas haul. I know I don’t have candles and Christmassy stuff but I’m a savage so I’m gonna definitely call it a Christmas haul. Lol comment down below what is the not so christmassy thing you’ve bought in December. Don’t forget to go and check out KaylaHope’s blogppost and her instagram. She’s such a sweet child so go make friends with her.
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